Chaplain’s Corner – The Practice of Confession

“But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever! Amen” (2 Peter 2:19).

This benediction from Peter also presents a challenge, or perhaps even a command—to grow. When we are saved, we are immediately gifted with the fruit of the Spirit and one or more gifts of the Spirit; but with this command to grow, we should know that we always have room for improvement. In fact, Paul says it like this: “Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling; for it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure.”

This work in us is a continuing work—the work of growth. It is not work that saves us (just for clarification). It is a work that helps us to grow in our relationship with our Lord and Savior. So how does this growth occur? The best answer is that it occurs through intentional practice and the counsel of the Holy Spirit. You might call it training, or discipleship. If you have ever been involved in sports, dance, music, gymnastics, etc., you know that the best way to improve is to practice, and not just any old practice, but practice that has been designed by experts in the field, proven over time, to produce the right kinds of results. There have been many good books written on this subject over the past many years. You might find them listed under spiritual disciplines, or spiritual practices. I’d be happy to recommend a few if you want to contact me.

Besides the main ways that we access God’s grace—reading our Bible, prayer, worship including participating in the sacraments, preaching, and fellowship with other believers—there are many other practices, or spiritual disciplines. Many of these practices have been subjects of previous devotions. The practice we are learning about in this devotion is confession.

What is confession exactly? Confession means to admit or acknowledge. There are three areas of confession that if we regularly practice will help us to grow in our knowledge of Jesus—going back to our key verse in 2 Peter.

  • Confession of faith – our confession of faith is simply our admission that although we are sinners who deserve death, as in Romans 3:23, God sent his son Jesus to earth to pay the penalty for our sins so that we can experience eternal life with Christ our Lord (Romans 6:23; John 3:16). When Jesus asked, who do you say I am, Peter “said you are Christ, son of the living God” (Matthew 16:16). This statement has become the foundation, the Confession of Faith, the foundation upon which He built His Church. This Confession of Faith with the belief in Jesus’s resurrection is not only the foundation of the Church, but the only way to salvation. “Remember, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved” Romans 10:9). While we proclaimed this confession when we accepted Christ as our Savior and then were no longer sinners but saints; it is well to continue to remember this confession in our daily prayers. For example, even now after 65 years saved, I can still really get wound up in myself—frustrated and overwhelmed. And worse, I can take credit where I don’t deserve it when things do go well. Either way, this practice of Confession is a wonderful reminder of what our Beautiful Savior has done for us. Take time each day to remember just what God has done for you, that He has done all that is necessary; and how He has saved you for Life everlasting. And be thankful.
  • Confession when confronted – Confrontation is hard, regardless of which side of it you are on. I know when I have been confronted, my defenses immediately go up. I’m embarrassed to be called out; I look for excuses. This is whether it’s the Holy Spirit or my husband or a friend. Matthew 5:23-24 says “Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there in front of the altar. First go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift.I take this to mean that before we can be right with God, we must make every effort to be right with others. If either party has committed any offense, then we must take responsibility to try to set things right. So, this practice has two parts: First, set yourself up for success by praying in preparation. In other words, in your morning prayers ask God to soften your heart to be ready to respond; to forgive, and to seek forgiveness and reconciliation immediately. Second, don’t put it off when the situation arises. Matthew 5:24 reminds us of the sense of urgency. Ephesians 4:26 tells us to “…do not let the sun go down on your anger.”
  • Confession with daily examination – take time in your daily prayers to reflect on your day (this could be your nighttime prayer) and ask the Holy Spirit to convict you of any area where you have fallen short—in your speech, in your actions, and even in your thoughts. Ask God to bring them to mind so that you can seek forgiveness. David is my guide for this. In Psalm 26:2 he cries out: “Test me, Lord, and try me, examine my heart and my mind.” And in Psalm 139:23-24 (which I regularly pray), Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me and lead me in the way everlasting.”You may look at me and see someone whose actions and speech look fairly good. But God sees my heart. My thoughts can seethe with resentment and bitterness from long ago offenses. This might seem trivial, but trust me, it is not. Bitterness can destroy relationships and joy. For you it might be something else, a sinful craving, a bad habit. (I have those, too.) This is an invaluable area of confession and daily work. Pray for conviction, then for forgiveness and strategies and help with overcoming. You cannot correct a problem that you have not first identified. “If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9).

I pray that this practice of daily confession in these three areas will stimulate your growth and walk with Christ as it is doing for me. Reflecting on our opening passage: “…grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ,” recognize that we are first saved by grace, and then we grow. The reward for our growth is eternal life but with the added benefit of knowing Christ. Not just knowledge about Him but actually knowing our Lord and Savior in a very real and personal way. And this is my prayer for each of us. And finally, gratitude and praise for our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ:

“To You be glory both now and forever! Amen” (2 Peter 3:19b).

In Christ,

Judy

Chaplain’s Corner – Wings

“Jerusalem, Jerusalem, you who kill the prophets and stone those sent to you, how often I have longed to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, and you were not willing” (Matthew 23:37).

I have been known to express my joy when all my chicks (my sons and their families) are together with me, like a hen with all her chicks under her wings. What a beautiful passage, spoken by Jesus, to his beloved Jerusalem. Despite the unwillingness of the people of Israel, despite their unfaithfulness, Jesus longs for them. Likewise, He longs to cover us with His love, just like a hen covers her chicks under her wings.

An ancient Near Eastern custom involved covering someone with the corner of a garment. In Hebrew, the word for “corner or edge of a garment” can also be translated as a “bird’s wing.” Our Tuesday Bible study recently finished a study of the book of Ruth, where this practice appears. In Ruth 3:4, Naomi tells Ruth to go to Boaz at night: But when he lies down, observe the place where he lies. Then go, uncover his feet, and lie down, and he will tell you what to do.” Ruth obeys, and in Ruth 3:9 she says to Boaz, “I am Ruth, your servant. Spread your wings (the corner of your garment) over your servant, for you are a redeemer.”

This custom was meant to symbolize that Ruth was asking for marriage; in other words, she was asking Boaz, as her nearest male relative (known at that time as a guardian-redeemer), to covenant with her for protection and provision under the marriage contract. This custom is a picture of the relationship of Jesus as Redeemer with His Church. The church is the Bride of Christ, and as believers, we are members of the church. In seeking this covenantal relationship with Jesus, we are asking for that same covering of salvation, protection, and protection. As believers, like Ruth, we seek this beautiful relationship, and Jesus longs for it. In fact, earlier in the Book of Ruth, verse 2:12, Boaz tells Ruth, “The Lord repay you for what you have done, and may a full reward be given to you by the Lord, the God of Israel, under whose wings you have come to take refuge!”

What is important to note about this relationship is our willingness to seek and to receive Jesus. He is ready, willing, even longing for us to accept His gift of salvation, the covering of His wings; but we must take the step of receiving this gift. When you are sad, feeling lost and alone, know that Jesus longs for you to rest, relax, and seek relief under the wings of His protection. As King David wrote and modeled: “I long to dwell in your tent forever and take refuge in the shelter of your wings” (Psalm 61:4).

In Christ,

Judy

Chaplain’s Corner – Self(less)

“Love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:39).

“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others” (Philippians 2:3-4).

Does anyone else get a little confused by these commands? We know the first one means love your neighbor well, so does that imply that we should love ourselves well, as well? Yet David writes: “Turn my heart toward your statutes and not toward selfish gain” (Psalm 118:36). Proverbs counsels against selfishness “An unfriendly person pursues selfish ends and against all sound judgment starts quarrels” (Proverbs 18:1), and Paul preaches against selfish ambition in several of his letters. Jesus preached “… to them all: ‘Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me’” (Luke 9:23).

These verses preach a denial of self, but not with an end game of denial. In fact, if we are just trying to see how much we can deny ourselves, we are still engaging in self-ish behavior. The goal is not self-denial. The goal is loving God and loving others.

In fact, there are passages that speak of enjoyment of the gifts Gd has given us. Jesus even says that “the Sabbath was made for man, not man for Sabbath” (Mark 2:27). How do we properly “enjoy” what we have been given? And what are some of the ways that we prioritize our love for God and for others?

  1. Gratitude. All good gifts point toward the Giver. James 1:17 reminds us that “Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.” God has made it possible for us to receive gifts of His creation, so we should have a heart of gratitude for His generosity. “Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts” (Colossians 3:16).
  2. Trust. When we trust God for His provision, we realize that we don’t have to be greedy or self-serving. “So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them” (Matthew 6:31-32).
  3. Generosity. Generosity is an outcome of gratitude and trust. When we acknowledge that God is the giver of all good gifts and that we can trust Him to provide for each of us, we realize what a blessing it is to be used by Him as a conduit of these good gifts. “The generous will themselves be blessed, for they share their food with the poor” (Proverbs 22:9).
  4. Obedience. When we focus on His priorities and align ourselves with His will, everything else falls into place according to His perfect plan. This means not giving in to our sinful desires but instead seeking to please Him in every way. “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well” (Matthew 6:33).

All these actions are self-less rather than self-ish because they are focused on God and His glory and not on us. And by pursuing them, we can like John the Baptist, seek with our whole hearts to magnify the Lord. “He must become greater; I must become less” (John 3:30).

In Christ,

Judy

Chaplain’s Corner – Culture of Honor

“Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves” (Romans 12:10).

Continuing our series on Nashville Rescue Mission’s Core Values, now is a suitable time to focus the last one on the list, Culture of Honor. The word “culture” implies a shared set of values or beliefs; therefore, it is a good summing up of the intentional nature of all our core values. In other words, as we live out all our core values (Extravagant Faith, Radical Hospitality, Continuous Improvement, Excellence, and Culture of Honor) we are creating a certain set of expectations around our customs and behaviors—expectations for how we work together as a team.

The word “honor” is somewhat old-fashioned in that in the past you were more likely to hear about those living under a certain code of honor—chivalry or respect. It means high respect and moral integrity. Schools have honor societies, which usually require high grades as well as meeting strict standards of behavior and service. When used as a verb, to honor someone means to regard them with high respect; it also means to fulfill the terms of an agreement. “Honor” is a positive term.

The statement describing the Mission’s Core Value of Culture of Honor reads as follows:

We honor those that have laid the path before us…This is a belief that has us looking forward as we look back. We cannot launch without a launch pad. We cannot build unless we have a solid foundation.

We are building on a legacy that began in 1954 with an idea, a desire to help men who had no place to stay indoors, no sure next meal. Our main purpose was, and continues to be, to offer a cup of cold water in Jesus’ Name, and to offer the Living Water of Jesus Christ. On this foundation, and beginning with two rented rooms and five guests more than 72 years ago, we have expanded to serving men, women, and children on the two campuses that comprise Nashville Rescue Mission today.

…and bless those who labor among us…. Nashville Rescue Mission has grown and evolved to where we are today based on the efforts of our staff over the years. We have much to be thankful for, and we are certainly thankful for the more than 130 men and women plus countless volunteers who are so faithfully serving the Mission today with their gifts and talents and experience.

…. as we embrace the future ahead of us. We are excited to welcome our new CEO, Stephanie Sewell, to lead us forward. While embracing changes in leadership, we pray to remain faithful in both in our personal and Mission roles:

  • To the authority of those God places in leadership roles
  • To the Word of God
  • To share the gospel of Jesus Christ and His saving love and grace
  • To carry out the Great Commission to disciple those in our care
  • To “love one another”
  • To steward the resources of time, talents, and donations of money and all other gifts

So, as we do our best to live out the core value of Culture of Honor, let us do so not only with those in mind who went before us, but also keeping in mind all those who will come after us. Let those who come behind us find us faithful, as in the words to this beautiful hymn: Find us Faithful.

“Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us, fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider him who endured such opposition from sinners, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart” (Hebrews 12:1-3).

In Christ,

Judy

Chaplain’s Corner – Continuous Improvement

We never stop learning and growing, but respond to every opportunity with excitement in order to reach our full potential. (Nashville Rescue Mission Core Value)

As a core value for NRM, the above statement is a path to both individual and corporate growth, with a goal of reaching our full potential as individual employees and as part of the NRM team. In a broader sense, continuous improvement implies a growth in godliness to continue until we pass from this life to eternal life and attain a glorified status. We have been focusing on the path to godliness in our recent study of 2 Peter 1. And Paul likewise provides the path to glorification: “And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified” (Romans 8:30).

What a blessing to know that God made us with the ability and potential to grow. I am astonished really, because a quick look at the nature of nature (not a typo) demonstrates that it is a fundamental principle that things tend to age, decay, rot and eventually to die. This principle applies to living creatures, both plants and animals, and it refers to created things. We know all too well that if we don’t maintain a house, it will eventually collapse, and if we don’t maintain our car, it will stop running.

There is actually a scientific term for this principle–the principle of entropy–which tells us that “everything naturally tends toward disorder.“ As a believer in the Word of God, I think this law came into play at the Fall, which is when death was introduced into the natural order of things. This principle goes on to say that “maintaining order requires energy” and also explains that the only way to defeat entropy, and death, is through an external force.

I know you are not looking for a science lesson, and I am certainly not a science teacher, this is way above my pay grade. However, in Christian terms the Bible tells us, “Just as people are destined to die once, and after that to face judgment, so Christ was sacrificed once to take away the sins of many; and he will appear a second time, not to bear sin, but to bring salvation to those who are waiting for him” (Hebrews 9:27-28). From this passage, we can see that the external force introduced to defeat human death is the victory of Jesus on the cross and his resurrection and ascension to the right hand of God. “For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 6:23).

Take a moment to contemplate God’s grand plan of redemption! It’s so beautiful and magnificent and perfect! Praise God!!! God’s Son Jesus has done the work. It is finished. All we must do to take advantage of the victory of eternal life is to accept this free gift. All we need to do to defeat the natural principle of entropy in our own life–to continue our sanctification and growth–is to sincerely pray in surrender “Your Kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in Heaven” (Matthew 6:10).

How do we actually participate in this victory over death? How can we “work out (y)our own salvation with fear and trembling” (Philippians 2:12)? How can we continuously improve our spiritual life?

  1. By believing that Jesus is our salvation: “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16).
  2. By continually studying and meditating on the Word of God to impress it into our hearts and minds: “Do not conform to the pattern of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing, and perfect will” (Romans 12:2).
  3. By always trying our best to be obedient: “Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth” (2 Timothy 2:15).
  4. By carrying out our responsibilities as if we were doing them for God: “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters” (Colossians 3:23).
  5. By consistently practicing Christian virtues: “…train yourself for godliness; for while bodily training is of some value, godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come” (1 Timothy 4:7-8).

With salvation comes the gift of the Holy Spirit and the associated fruit of the Spirit. As believers, we are each gifted with special abilities designed for use in building up the church (which is all believers). Know that God does not evaluate us on the type or quantity of the gifts that He gives us; but he does evaluate us on how well we use what we have. Our path to continuous improvement may not be an unbroken upward trajectory, but we get back up when we fall and keep on keeping on, with the help of the Holy Spirit. We are called to be good stewards of these gifts. We persevere in our efforts toward continuous improvement. What a blessing it is to be a part of this Nashville Rescue Mission ministry and to have these opportunities for participating in the building of God’s Kingdom.

When it is all said and done, we want to hear the commendation of our Lord and Master that we have done our best with the gifts, talents, and resources that He has given us. “His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!’” (Matthew 25:23).

In Christ,

Judy

Chaplain’s Corner – Faith

And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him” Hebrews 11:6).

Faith has often been compared to sitting in a chair. We may believe that the chair will hold us, but only when do we sit in it do we demonstrate our faith in the chair’s ability to hold us. So, my question is if have you ever had a chair pulled out from under you? I have—by my husband in church! We were standing around talking before our Sunday School class started (this was many years ago), and my husband, seeing that I was talking with someone new, pulled my chair around so that she could sit with us. He thought I saw him do it, but I didn’t. Of course, I was wearing a skirt and heels (did I mention this was a long time ago?) and I was holding a Styrofoam cup of coffee. Boy did I hit hard, and boy was I wrecked, not only embarrassed but with a sore bottom and lap full of hot coffee. Only my husband felt worse.

The thing is, I had faith in that chair, but when I demonstrated it, it failed me. So many things fail us. Sometimes it’s because of our own faulty expectations, and sometimes it’s because we are dealing with less than perfect people—willfully or accidentally. And even worse, sometimes it is us who are less than faithful. Yes, we often let our own selves down, we disappoint others and we disappoint ourselves.

But there is One who will never let us down. “…if we are faithless, he remains faithful, for he cannot disown himself” (2 Timothy 2:13).

The word “disown” used in this passage is a powerful term. It means to refuse to acknowledge, to deny. To disown a family member is to refuse to acknowledge them as family. God says earlier in that chapter that if we disown Him, he will disown us, meaning that if we refuse to acknowledge Him as our Savior, then we will not be saved. That is a dreadful state. But He never says that we must have a certain level of faith to be saved, only that we have faith. In fact, Jesus was once asked how much faith a person needed to be saved, and He replied that if our faith was only as big as a mustard seed — one of nature’s smallest seeds — then God would honor that faith (see Matthew 17:20).

You see, it isn’t the size of our faith that’s important, but the object of our faith. In other words, in what (or whom) do you place your faith? Is your faith simply in “faith” (as is true with some people)? Or is it in your feelings, which come and go? Is your faith in your good works, hoping somehow that you’ve been good enough for God to accept you? …. Only one person is worthy to be the object of our faith — and that is Jesus Christ. He alone is our Savior, for He alone has opened heaven’s door for us. Make certain that your faith is in the right place, by committing your life in complete faith and trust to Jesus Christ (rom BGEA website).

2 Timothy 2:13 says that God cannot disown Himself. This means that God cannot refuse to acknowledge that He is God. He cannot deny Himself. God is God, the great I Am. He is the great eternal God. He cannot not be faithful. With God, we don’t have to worry that he will hide, leave, or abandon us. Hebrews 13:5 reiterates the promise that God gave to Joshua in Deuteronomy 31:6: “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” It was true then, and it remains true today and forever. So, while we may struggle with our faith, as long as we are in the struggle, God is in the battle with us, sustaining us and protecting us. Give thanks today for God, who from the foundation of the world loved us so much that He gave his Son to be our salvation and sent the Holy Spirit to be our Comforter and Counselor.

“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life” John 3:16.

In Christ,

Judy

Chaplain’s Corner – Greatest of These

His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness. Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine nature, having escaped the corruption in the world caused by evil desires. For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, mutual affection; and to mutual affection, love” (2 Peter 1:3-7).

We started this series on Godliness several weeks ago, looking at Peter’s instructions about growing in our godly life. We are instructed to make every effort to add certain character attributes to the foundation of our faith so as to participate in God’s divine nature.

If you have worked your way through these past few Chaplain’s Corner devotionals, you might feel fairly proud of yourself, and that is okay. (It is okay to take pride in what God is doing in your life, as long as you give God the credit.)

And then we top it all off with making “every effort to add…love.” Love is a tricky word. We overuse it, applying the feeling of love to things that are inanimate and fleeting, such as chocolate (guilty!). Love as a feeling can be so fickle—one day I “love” my neighbor, and another day not so much. The best way to sort this out is to realize that “love” is a verb. It is an action. Feelings can be fickle; but with the fruit of the spirit—self-control—I can take responsibility for my actions.

Back in 2019, I did a series of devotions on 1 Corinthians 13, sometimes called the “Love Chapter.” Below are links to those devotions which explain this marvelous teaching on what it means to love. I hope you will take some time to read them.

When Paul writes that the greatest of these is love, he is not saying that love is more monumental or more important than faith or hope. What he is trying to get across is that love is transcendent. Other attributes such as faith and hope will be answered and resolved by our death and subsequent entry into heaven. But love will transcend death into eternity. John Piper says, “…in this present life, every relationship of love, and faithfulness, and loyalty, and sacrifice, and care will be celebrated for all eternity in tribute to the grace of God and the faithfulness of his obedient child. The ‘well done, good and faithful servant’ that Jesus speaks to his faithful followers at the resurrection is a well done in every fruitful relationship. Well done for that beautiful love. Well done.”

Love is eternal: “Prophecy and speaking in unknown languages and special knowledge will become useless. But love will last forever! Now our knowledge is partial and incomplete, and even the gift of prophecy reveals only part of the whole picture! But when the time of perfection comes, these partial things will become useless…. Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love” (1 Corinthians 13:8-10, 13 – NLT).

In Christ,

Judy

Chaplain’s Corner – Outdo One Another

“His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness. Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine nature, having escaped the corruption in the world caused by evil desires. For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, mutual affection; and to mutual affection, love” (2 Peter 1:3-7).

We started this series on Godliness several weeks ago, looking at Peter’s instructions about growing in our godly life. We are closing in on the ultimate pursuit, which is love. That will be our topic for next week. This week is the penultimate (word for the day: look it up) objective, and that is mutual affection. We are to strive for mutual affection.

Thinking literally about this results in a conundrum. Since mutual means something that is experienced by two people, how can we strive for something that is also the responsibility of the other person? Stay with me and we will figure it out.

Starting with affection, we understand affection to be a feeling of liking or caring for someone, a tender attachment, fondness. When we feel this way about someone, we want to show it. We demonstrate affection by our actions. The opposite of affection is being detached, uncaring, unloving, and perhaps even rejection, hatred, loathing. When we feel affection toward someone, we naturally want them to be happy, pleased, healthy, to have all the good things, and we will do what we can to provide these things for them. That further means that we will act with the intention for them to be pleased or at least for it to be for their good and not their harm. We are not being affectionate to serve our own purposes. Truly demonstrating affection is other-focused; it recalls all the “one-another’s” that the Bible teaches (here are just a few):

  • Be kind to one another (Ephesians 4:32a)
  • Forgive one another (Ephesians 4:32b, Colossians 3:13b)
  • Bear with one another (Ephesians 4:2-3, Colossians 3:13a)
  • Encourage one another (Hebrews 10:24)
  • Do good to one another (1 Thessalonians 5:15)
  • Serve one another (Galatians 5:13, 1 Peter 4:10)

So how do all these commands jibe with the adjective “mutual?” A key would be communication. We must be open and transparent with each other, asking what is pleasing to the other, and sensitive to both verbal and nonverbal feedback. We always assume the best intentions from the other. And since we can only be responsible for our own actions, we set the example. We do not give up, even when our affection is not reciprocated, because over time, the odds are that it will be.

Lastly: in order for our desire and effort toward mutual affection to be genuine, the foundation of the preceding attributes in our key passage must be in place. Faith, goodness, knowledge, self-control, perseverance, and godliness must be increasing in our own lives to be the kind of person who is genuinely affectionate—with all that implies—toward another in a way that models and inspires those same attributes in the other.

Paul tells us in Romans 12:18 “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.” So, while we cannot control someone else’s response, we are still accountable to do our very best to show true affection for one another.

“Love one another with brotherly affection. Outdo one another in showing honor” (Romans 12:10).

In Christ,

Judy

Chaplain’s Corner – To Be or Not to Be

Chaplain’s Corner – To Be or Not to Be

“His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness. Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine nature, having escaped the corruption in the world caused by evil desires. For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, mutual affection; and to mutual affection, love” (2 Peter 1:3-7).

We started this series on Godliness several weeks ago, looking at Peter’s instructions about growing in our godly life. After building on faith, goodness, knowledge, self-control, and perseverance, we now come to the main objective: godliness. We are to add the pursuit of godliness to our efforts.

Just how are we to do this? What does this even mean? When I start down a line of questions like this, I can get hung up on seemingly trivial things. Take the word “am” for example. That is a small word, but oh, so deep! God calls himself, “I am who I am.” How can you get more essential, more fundamental than that?

That brings me to another small word: “be.” Ponder that one! “Be” could mean a state of being. It can also mean a continuing pursuit. For example, how many times has a loved one told you to “be careful” or to “be good.” My grandmother used to tell me to “be sweet.” Are they telling us that careful, good, and sweet are states of being, or are they telling us to pursue these things? Likely both. If you are like me, I did not immediately take steps to be careful, good, or sweet; however, those admonishments did linger in my ears as a sort of reminder or conscience-pricker when I strayed off the path.

In Ephesians 4:1-2, Paul tells the Ephesian church As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received. Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.” Paul picks up in verse 20 with a set of instructions for how to be Christ- (or God-) like. He says “That, however, is not the way of life you learned when you heard about Christ and were taught in him in accordance with the truth that is in Jesus. You were taught, with regard to your former way of life:

  • to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires;
  • to be made new in the attitude of your minds; 
  • and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.
  • Therefore, each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body.
  • In your anger do not sin.
  • Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry;
  • do not give the devil a foothold. 
  • Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need.
  • Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 
  • And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 
  • Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.” 

And Paul sums it up in verse 32: Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.”

All these challenges are ultimately a call to holiness. God declares that he is holy. The simplest and most accurate definition of holy is “set apart, separate, different, dedicated, consecrated.” Think about it like this: the word “holiday” is a corruption of “holy day.” Whether it is holidays or holy days, we know these days are different from the other days, they are set apart from the rest of the calendar. So, to be godly is to be holy. And God calls us to be holy as he himself is holy. All those challenges listed above call us to be different from the world, to be holy, to pursue godliness.

“Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is.” (1 John 3:2).

In Christ,

Judy

Chaplain’s Corner – Stick With It!

“His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness. Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine nature, having escaped the corruption in the world caused by evil desires. For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, mutual affection; and to mutual affection, love” (2 Peter 1:3-7).

We started this series on Godliness several weeks ago, looking at Peter’s instructions about growing in our godly life. After building on faith, goodness, knowledge, and self-control, we come now to perseverance.

There are many enemies to perseverance:

  • Recalling the preceding action of self-control, sometimes the whole practice thing just becomes boring. We crave excitement, which sometimes means doing something different. Taking a break. And sometimes that is okay, if we realize that the “break” we are taking is only temporary. And sometimes, it is not okay, such as when we are engaged in critical roles like parenting and ministry. That is when we must focus on the result and the rewards that will come eventually. “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Finally, there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give to me on that Day, and not to me only but also to all who have loved His appearing” (2 Timothy 4:7-8).
  • A huge enemy of perseverance is discouragement–not seeing immediate results. Like trying to lose weight and getting stuck on a plateau. We begin to question why we are even trying this; it is useless. The enemy will give us every reason to quit. But here’s where knowledge in this progression of godliness comes in. We know that results will come only if we keep on keeping on. Therefore, my beloved brothers, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that in the Lord your labor is not in vain” (1 Corinthians 15:58).
  • Sometimes we are tempted to change our priorities. The devil tried to tempt Jesus when he was in his 40-day fast in the wilderness by showing him “all the kingdoms of the world and their splendor.” The devil said, “All this I will give you if you will bow down and worship me” (Matthew 4:30). But Jesus remained focused on the goal his Father had given him and said “Away from me, Satan! For it is written, “Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only.’” (Matthew 4:10). Jesus persevered because he remained focused on his God-given priority.
  • It is quite easy to question our efforts when we run into conflict or criticism. And it never hurts to pause and reflect on this feedback prayerfully. But we must prayerfully evaluate whether the criticism is coming from someone who has God’s priorities in mind. There are only two sides—if we are not with Jesus, we are against him. Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 13 that love “always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

Love is the ultimate test. If our efforts are based on love for God and love for each other, then we have God’s promise in the passage above that “His divine power has given us everything we need for a godly life through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness” (2 Peter 2:1).

“But whoever catches a glimpse of the revealed counsel of God—the free life! —even out of the corner of his eye, and sticks with it, is no distracted scatterbrain but a man or woman of action. That person will find delight and affirmation in the action.” (James 1:25 Message).

In Christ,

Judy